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Girlo’s Check this out

One of my favourite authors for young women attempting to navigate their way in the world is Anthea Paul. Her Girlosophy books are a great read and I’ve never given one to a young woman at school without having her rave about how much it made her feel better about herself. That is surely all that needs to be said to recommend them to you.

There is a new Girlosophy website! There are some great links and articles on there as well as groups. I can’t rate her and the work she does highly enough.

I think girls of all age deserve to indulge themselves in Anthea Paul’s philosophy on living on your own terms.

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Made My Day

You don’t have a clue how your words may help someone. Yesterday I read something on a blog, that I can’t explain because that would mean admitting to silly things I’d rather not admit to in public, and it made my day. To be more accurate it transformed my thinking around an area of my past that was a little sensitive (in case you hadn’t noticed). I am fairly confident the person who wrote it had no idea what she was doing, and if she did, more power to her – thanks. I would love to think I could make someones day like that, randomly and inadvertently.

It reminds me of that way of thinking that you never really know your true purpose because it is at a 90 degree angle to what you think you are doing that’s important. I’ve was on the receiving end of that yesterday, twice! 

Last night I went to a drive through fast food place. Two of the young people who served me, one taking my money and one giving me my food, were past students. They gave me the warmest greetings I’ve ever had in such a place. They were happy to see me!

One of them actually thanked me for recommending “Girlosophy” by Anthea Paul to her. She said it has really helped in so many ways, I’d never know, as she delivered my son’s meal to me.

It was an amazing feeling as I drove away. It’s the kind of informal feedback that really hits the spot! Sometimes, it’s great to work and live in the same community.

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“My Girlosophy” by Anthea Paul

Anthea’s book, ‘My Girlosophy’ would make the perfect gift for a young woman. I have ordered a copy for myself, even though I’m an old girl. This book is about one of my favourite things, journaling. It includes examples of Anthea’s journal and other ‘real life’ girl-you can read all about the many treasures in the review.

At school, in English we have had students journaling for the past couple of years and most of them enjoy it. Many students have been able to express things in their journal, they would find it difficult to talk about. It improves relationships between teachers and students. It improves their writing. We emphasise to students, that we are going to read them, so they need to be aware of their audience. I’ve seen some gorgeous journals created by young people. Just like blogging really!

“I write entirely to find out what I’m thinking, what I’m looking at, what I see and what it means. What I want and what I fear.”
Joan Didion

In the film, ‘Freedom Writers’, the teacher used journals to give voice to her students very effectively. I think it is the most accessible personal growth tool available. Reflecting on your life, feelings and thoughts and then writing them down can order your thinking and help you to see yourself in a new way.

“How do I know what I think until I see what I say?”
E. M. Forster

I believe it is a very powerful medium and apart from my public journal – this blog, I keep a personal journal for my mental health. I write every random thought in it and have been doing this since 1988. I kept diaries when I was a young girl as well, yet destroyed them later as I felt they were too incriminating and didn’t want anyone to read them. I regret that now.

I have ordered a copy for the school library as well!

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Go Girls

Today’s Age has a great article on true girl power: Sick of impossible princesses, real girls fight back. This type of news gives me great pleasure. Poor self image is very invasive this culture of unhealthy beauty. I will rest on this issue when I see normal images in the media and not distorted, air brushed, superficial, insane role models for young people. You don’t have to look very far to find a young person in desperate need exploited by the media (think Britney, Corey for recent examples).

I remember my dad once remarking to me that I shouldn’t look to ‘pop’ culture for real advice or for models of behaviour unless I wanted to be a singer or an actress. He had a rant about how they are not qualified to be role models in anything other than what they excelled at. Whilst at the time I though he just didn’t understand what it meant to be cool, I began to not be interested in the private lives of artists. I began to just appreciate what they were offering, the music, the acting, the art. My pa also used to say “Why don’t these great scientists have fan clubs? They are really doing great things.” They were right and I think these comments have influenced me to look for a little more in my heroes.

I also noticed on the ‘Little Losers’ campaign (Row over Lewd Clothes for Kids) which has been picked up by many bloggers such as Megan at Imaginif Jay Jay’s is the little loser, yesterday’s Herald Sun had a small article about the response from Jay Jays : Jay Jays responds to tee criticism. This is a win!

Authors like Anthea Paul and her empowering ‘Girlosophy’ series are making a difference. Light is shining on this manipulation and people are waking up to the hidden messages we are saturated with. There is a power in speaking up. I want to do more of it in 2008. I hope you do too!

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‘The Girlo Travel Survival Kit’ by Anthea Paul

‘The Girlo Travel Survival Kit’ is released this month and I can’t wait to get my hands on a copy. If it’s anything like her previous books, it will be a precious addition to my library. I know I’m a bit old to consider myself a girl, but somewhere on the inside, I must be because I have taken a big liking to the Girlosophy series.  Anthea Paul writes such good common sense. She writes about living with spirit and awareness and I love it.

If you get the opportunity to hear Anthea speak, whilst she is promoting this book, I recommend you take your daughter. I wish I’d had mine with me, as well as every other young woman I knew, when I heard her talk last year. She is passionate and articulate. She has a very powerful and important message about self esteem and living. Her experiences make her very credible. She’s just fabulous.

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What Books Would I Buy for Teens this Christmas?

If I had to buy a teenager a book this Christmas, I would have to select one of the Girlosophy books by Anthea Paul. Give the gift of self-esteem. I would purchase J. C Burke’s ‘The Story of Tom Brennan’, any of James Moloney or Michael Gerard Bauers recent books such as ‘Don’t Call Me Ishmael’ or ‘Lost Property’ are great novels. Maureen McCarthy and Brigid Lowrys’ latest releases were also great this year.

I have reviewed briefly all the books I have mentioned above and if you click on the young adult reading tag, you can browse through to find something that might interest your loved one. If you have a specific child in mind, email me with some info about them and I might be able to suggest something more specific. I would need age, interests, reading habits to make a really good choice. I am heading off on an adventure Saturday so better be quick!

I usually buy my kids a book at Christmas. I have been doing it for so long, they would miss it if I didn’t. In fact I buy every kid I buy gifts for, books. One year I thought I’d do something different and get beach towels, I felt I was being a bit selfish, because I love books so much and actually enjoy selecting them for the kids. Several complained that they were relying on my present for their summer reading, so I went back to my original strategy.

A book often doesn’t seem much to a kid when they first open it. So don’t expect too much instant gratitude. It’s often weeks or months later that you get the phone call or email to say what a great present it was and how much they loved it. I’ve never had that kind of feedback with other toys.

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Girlosophy: The Love Survival Kit by Anthea Paul

I read “The Love Survival Kit” over 2 nights. It’s brilliant. It covers everything I would want to say to my daughter and know for myself. I wish I’d read it when I was 16. I had to learn many of the contents the hands on or rather hearts on way, complete with messy and painful learning experiences. Not that I think a book could have changed it all, yet I feel there are great signposts given in this book. It is reassuring as “The Soul Survival Kit”, it builds self esteem. Even for older girls like myself.

I have loaned this book to a few young women, who have totally raved about it. I am really impressed with Anthea Paul. My son said the other day when I was raving about her to his friends, “Move over Al Gore, mum’s got a new hero!”

I have a couple of her other books ordered, so I ‘ll be sharing more in the future.

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Schools Today

I’ve just returned from our schools fashion parade. The talent displayed by the kids just blows me away. The beauty of each individual kid who modelled the clothes, all different shapes and sizes, hair colours, individuals shone for all to see. The creativity and work that was on display in the drawings and sketches in the foyer, in the recycled fashion items modelled by the students was stunning. It saddens me that it is so obvious to the adults in their lives, parents, teachers and friends, yet they miss it in themselves. This is why I loved Anthea Paul’s awesome speech last night.

It’s been a busy week at school and I have seen some amazing displays of goodness this week. On Monday we held a Remembrance Day service. A group of students organised and delivered speeches acknowledging their appreciation of the selflessness of those who served the country. Students then pinned names of family members who had served to a string. The remainder of the student body, roughly 600 students all seated on the ground around the flagpole, were so silent and respectful, you could hear the names gently flapping in the wind. Every year I witness this in awe. I look at the sea of faces and feel proud to work among these kids who rise to such occasions.

It is also a privilege to work alongside the teachers who make these things happen. The teacher responsible for the Remembrance Day service and the Fashion Parade sits next to me at my desk. I watch her every year making calls, driving around town, running fundraisers to make these events a success. She gets exhausted, tired, stressed yet her passion for her students and life keeps her turning up every day to make these truly educational experiences happen. She is not paid any more than other teachers at our school, she has no special position, she enriches our school community because that is an expression of who she is. I appreciate her greatly.

The media rarely reports these things. Reporters don’t tell about the kids who support one another through family, friendship and health crisis’s. They don’t find it newsworthy to inform about the efforts that go into fundraising and social action in most schools around the country. They don’t celebrate the talent and creativity we get to see in the art shows, fashion parades, musical performances, to mention a few of the events I get to see every year.

Yes, we will all be exhausted over the next few weeks wrapping up the year into corrections, reports and award nights, but it is entirely worth it.

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Girlosophy and Anthea Paul

Last night I went to see Anthea Paul speak at the Gippsland Womens Health Annual General Meeting in Sale. She is one of the most engaging speakers I have listened to, in a long time. I was very overtired and nearly didn’t bother – I’m so pleased I did!

It helped that her message is exactly the kind of message I try to get out to my students every day. It’s easy to like someone who agrees with you :-) . Yet seriously, there is a woman who is a fitting role model for young women. She is passionate, intelligent and articulate. She recognises true beauty and spirit for what it is and casts all imitations offered to young women today aside.

Anthea has written a series of books for young women, which I will be purchasing and reading. I will no doubt share them here, when I am done. Her message is worthy and I intend to take it up. She is currently visiting a number of schools and communities in Gippsland, so if you have the opportunity to see her, do whatever it takes to get there. Take your daughter!

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